Proverbs 31
The chapter in full, then the passages inside it that are worth stopping on — what each one claims, what the Greek or Hebrew shows, and how the reading is arrived at.
Proverbs 31 WEB
- 1 The words of King Lemuel—the revelation which his mother taught him:
- 2 "Oh, my son! Oh, son of my womb! Oh, son of my vows!
- 3 Don't give your strength to women, nor your ways to that which destroys kings.
- 4 It is not for kings, Lemuel, it is not for kings to drink wine, nor for princes to say, 'Where is strong drink?'
- 5 lest they drink, and forget the law, and pervert the justice due to anyone who is afflicted.
- 6 Give strong drink to him who is ready to perish, and wine to the bitter in soul.
- 7 Let him drink, and forget his poverty, and remember his misery no more.
- 8 Open your mouth for the mute, in the cause of all who are left desolate.
- 9 Open your mouth, judge righteously, and serve justice to the poor and needy."
- 10 Who can find a worthy woman? For her value is far above rubies.
- 11 The heart of her husband trusts in her. He shall have no lack of gain.
- 12 She does him good, and not harm, all the days of her life.
- 13 She seeks wool and flax, and works eagerly with her hands.
- 14 She is like the merchant ships. She brings her bread from afar.
- 15 She rises also while it is yet night, gives food to her household, and portions for her servant girls.
- 16 She considers a field, and buys it. With the fruit of her hands, she plants a vineyard.
- 17 She arms her waist with strength, and makes her arms strong.
- 18 She perceives that her merchandise is profitable. Her lamp doesn't go out by night.
- 19 She lays her hands to the distaff, and her hands hold the spindle.
- 20 She opens her arms to the poor; yes, she extends her hands to the needy.
- 21 She is not afraid of the snow for her household, for all her household are clothed with scarlet.
- 22 She makes for herself carpets of tapestry. Her clothing is fine linen and purple.
- 23 Her husband is respected in the gates, when he sits among the elders of the land.
- 24 She makes linen garments and sells them, and delivers sashes to the merchant.
- 25 Strength and dignity are her clothing. She laughs at the time to come.
- 26 She opens her mouth with wisdom. Kind instruction is on her tongue.
- 27 She looks well to the ways of her household, and doesn't eat the bread of idleness.
- 28 Her children rise up and call her blessed. Her husband also praises her:
- 29 "Many women do noble things, but you excel them all."
- 30 Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain; but a woman who fears Yahweh, she shall be praised.
- 31 Give her of the fruit of her hands! Let her works praise her in the gates!
Proverbs 31 closes the book with two units, distinct in origin and tone but joined by the same concern: how strength should be used. The chapter opens with a royal mother's instruction to her son on kingship, appetite, and justice (31:1-9), and then moves into an anonymous, alphabetic poem praising a capable woman (31:10-31, an acrostic in the Hebrew, each line beginning with the next letter of the alphabet — a structural signal that this is a complete, crafted portrait, not a random list of virtues). Nothing before this chapter names Lemuel; nothing after names the woman. Both are types held up at the very end of a book that has spent thirty chapters distinguishing wisdom from folly.
31:1-9 Give strong drink to him who is ready to perish
Lemuel is otherwise unknown — not an Israelite king in any other record — and "Massa" (v.1, transliterated in some versions, rendered "the revelation" here) may be a place or tribe in Arabia rather than a title. The content matters more than the identity: this is instruction from a queen mother to a son who will rule, on two dangers particular to power — women and wine (31:3-4) — and one duty particular to power: justice for those who cannot buy it (31:8-9).
Verses 6-7 are the passage careful readers stop on: "Give strong drink to him who is ready to perish, and wine to the bitter in soul... that he may forget his poverty." Read as general counsel it sounds like advising drink as a remedy for despair, which sits oddly beside Proverbs 20:1 ("Wine is a mocker") and Isaiah 5:22's woe on those "mighty to drink wine." But the verses are not general counsel; they are the contrast that sharpens verse 4. The king is told not to drink, precisely because his job is to judge clearly and defend the powerless — drink dulls exactly the faculties a ruler cannot afford to lose (v.5: "lest they... pervert the justice due to anyone who is afflicted"). The dying and the bitter in soul have no such office to protect; numbing their pain briefly is not the same danger as a judge who forgets the law between one case and the next. It is not a prescription for grief counseling so much as an argument by comparison: the throne cannot afford what the deathbed can.
Verses 8-9 state the positive charge plainly and without ambiguity: "Open your mouth for the mute, in the cause of all who are left desolate... judge righteously, and serve justice to the poor and needy." This is the entire justification for the warnings about wine and women that precede it — not personal piety for its own sake, but a ruler's clarity kept intact for the sake of people who have no other advocate.
31:10-31 Who can find a worthy woman?
The acrostic that follows is routinely read two ways that both miss its shape. One turns it into a checklist of feminine duty — early rising, textiles, real estate, silence about herself — and measures modern women against it as law. The other dismisses it as ancient domestic propaganda irrelevant to anyone outside a household economy. Both flatten what the poem is doing.
The woman described is not domestic in the narrow sense at all: she "considers a field, and buys it" (31:16), plants a vineyard, trades with merchants (31:24), and her judgment is trusted enough that "the heart of her husband trusts in her" and "he shall have no lack of gain" (31:11) — his standing depends on her competence, not the reverse. Verse 17, "she arms her waist with strength, and makes her arms strong," uses a word elsewhere applied to warriors; this is not a delicate figure. She is also explicitly generous rather than merely industrious — "she opens her arms to the poor" (31:20) — which keeps the portrait from collapsing into a productivity ideal.
The poem's own verdict on itself comes in verse 30: "Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain; but a woman who fears Yahweh, she shall be praised." Everything catalogued — the linen, the vineyard, the household order — is downstream of that one thing, not a substitute for it. The acrostic form itself argues against reading this as biography of one woman to be imitated line by line; it is a composed alphabet of excellence, meant to be recognized in its parts wherever they appear, not achieved in full by any one person. The final command, "Give her of the fruit of her hands! Let her works praise her in the gates!" (31:31), asks for public recognition of exactly the kind the poem has just performed — the woman is praised in the gates where Lemuel was told to open his mouth for the poor (31:9); wisdom's household and wisdom's court run on the same currency.
What the chapter asks
The book of Proverbs ends by refusing to separate competence from character. A king's strength is tested by whether it stays sober enough to defend someone who cannot pay for justice; a household's strength is tested by whether its hands, once full, open toward the poor rather than closing around what they have made. The chapter does not ask whether either figure is impressive — both plainly are — it asks what the strength is for.
The verses this turns on
The words of King Lemuel—the revelation which his mother taught him:discussed above
See also 5
- Proverbs 6:20 My son, keep your father's commandment, and don't forsake your mother's teaching.
- 2 Timothy 1:5 having been reminded of the sincere faith that is in you, which lived first in your grandmother Lois and your mother Eunice and, I am persuaded, in you also.
- Proverbs 1:8 My son, listen to your father's instruction, and don't forsake your mother's teaching;
- 2 Timothy 3:15 From infancy, you have known the holy Scriptures which are able to make you wise for salvation through faith which is in Christ Jesus.
- Proverbs 30:1 The words of Agur the son of Jakeh, the revelation: the man says to Ithiel, to Ithiel and Ucal:
Don't give your strength to women, nor your ways to that which destroys kings.discussed above
See also 5
- Deuteronomy 17:17 He shall not multiply wives to himself, that his heart not turn away. He shall not greatly multiply to himself silver and gold.
- Nehemiah 13:26 Didn't Solomon king of Israel sin by these things? Yet among many nations there was no king like him, and he was loved by his God, and God made him king over all Israel. Nevertheless foreign women caused even him to sin.
- Proverbs 7:26 for she has thrown down many wounded. Yes, all her slain are a mighty army.
- Proverbs 5:9 lest you give your honor to others, and your years to the cruel one;
- 1 Kings 11:1 Now King Solomon loved many foreign women, together with the daughter of Pharaoh: women of the Moabites, Ammonites, Edomites, Sidonians, and Hittites,
Open your mouth for the mute, in the cause of all who are left desolate.discussed above
See also 5
- Psalm 82:3 "Defend the weak, the poor, and the fatherless. Maintain the rights of the poor and oppressed.
- Proverbs 24:11 Rescue those who are being led away to death! Indeed, hold back those who are staggering to the slaughter!
- Jeremiah 26:24 But the hand of Ahikam the son of Shaphan was with Jeremiah, so that they didn't give him into the hand of the people to put him to death.
- Esther 4:13 Then Mordecai asked them to return this answer to Esther: "Don't think to yourself that you will escape in the king's house any more than all the Jews.
- Job 29:12 because I delivered the poor who cried, and the fatherless also, who had no one to help him,
Open your mouth, judge righteously, and serve justice to the poor and needy."discussed above
See also 5
- Isaiah 1:17 Learn to do well. Seek justice. Relieve the oppressed. Defend the fatherless. Plead for the widow."
- Amos 5:11 Therefore, because you trample on the poor and take taxes from him of wheat, you have built houses of cut stone, but you will not dwell in them. You have planted pleasant vineyards, but you shall not drink their wine.
- Leviticus 19:15 "'You shall do no injustice in judgment. You shall not be partial to the poor, nor show favoritism to the great; but you shall judge your neighbor in righteousness.
- Deuteronomy 1:16 I commanded your judges at that time, saying, "Hear cases between your brothers and judge righteously between a man and his brother, and the foreigner who is living with him.
- Job 29:15 I was eyes to the blind, and feet to the lame.
Who can find a worthy woman? For her value is far above rubies.discussed above
See also 5
- Proverbs 19:14 House and riches are an inheritance from fathers, but a prudent wife is from Yahweh.
- Proverbs 12:4 A worthy woman is the crown of her husband, but a disgraceful wife is as rottenness in his bones.
- Proverbs 18:22 Whoever finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor of Yahweh.
- Ephesians 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly and gave himself up for her,
- Proverbs 3:15 She is more precious than rubies. None of the things you can desire are to be compared to her.
The heart of her husband trusts in her. He shall have no lack of gain.discussed above
See also 1
- 1 Peter 3:1 In the same way, wives, be in subjection to your own husbands, so that, even if any don't obey the Word, they may be won by the behavior of their wives without a word,
She considers a field, and buys it. With the fruit of her hands, she plants a vineyard.discussed above
See also 3
- Matthew 13:44 "Again, the Kingdom of Heaven is like treasure hidden in the field, which a man found and hid. In his joy, he goes and sells all that he has and buys that field.
- Song of Solomon 8:12 My own vineyard is before me. The thousand are for you, Solomon, two hundred for those who tend its fruit.
- Joshua 15:18 When she came, she had him ask her father for a field. She got off her donkey, and Caleb said, "What do you want?"
She opens her arms to the poor; yes, she extends her hands to the needy.discussed above
See also 5
- Ephesians 4:28 Let him who stole steal no more; but rather let him labor, producing with his hands something that is good, that he may have something to give to him who has need.
- Hebrews 13:16 But don't forget to be doing good and sharing, for with such sacrifices God is well pleased.
- Proverbs 22:9 He who has a generous eye will be blessed, for he shares his food with the poor.
- Proverbs 19:17 He who has pity on the poor lends to Yahweh; he will reward him.
- Psalm 41:1 For the Chief Musician. A Psalm by David. Blessed is he who considers the poor. Yahweh will deliver him in the day of evil.
From the interpretive tradition
He said not: Thou shalt not be tempested, thou shalt not be travailed, thou shalt not be afflicted; but He said: Thou shalt not be overcome.
To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything and your heart will be wrung and possibly broken.